Message from Margaret


Angelic Channel, Shamanic Healer, Author & Life Coach
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What to do when your life is falling apart?

July 11, 2017 by gerry


Hello Dear Ones and Welcome,

My message this week is a little different – for it comes in two parts – one now and one later! I want to begin with the topic of what to do when you feel like your life is falling apart around you! I know that you have all experienced this feeling in one way or another and that many of you have experienced it more than once! It comes when the situations that you had been expecting turn out to be not what you had expected – so you continue to struggle to bring that which you desire into fruition and as you are doing this you are not paying attention to other parts of your life – that are slowly unraveling. It is like that small crack in the windshield of your car that happens at a time when you might not be able to afford to fix it – because you are focused on spending your money in a different direction – but then it grows larger and larger until you can no longer ignore the problem.  The issue is being able to move your focus to those things that are most important and trusting that the other things will fall into place – or maybe were not intended to fall into place after all.

Now here is the different part of this week’s message – I ask you please to join me on the radio program – live this evening at 6pm Eastern – or in a replay later in the week – where I can share my advice on how you can best address this and more importantly, why it may keep happening! I long tonight to also hear your questions about this and to help you to move forward! And I will also answer it on the blog after the show as well. I just wish so much to bring you into a community of other like minded individuals who have come here to help each other. The truth is, your lives are not falling apart, they are actually coming together in a different direction and I would love to help you to see how you can identify that direction!

Speak to you more tonight on the radio show!



It’s All Elemental

June 6, 2017 by gerry


Margaret’s Message June 6th


Last week I hinted at what I wanted to share as my message for the month of June. I wanted to speak about the three things that were held in common by the three most popular observances of the month. Those three things are Father’s Day, Graduations and Weddings – as June is one of – if not the most popular wedding month of the year. What they share in common is something very basic – they are all celebrations of new beginnings and all involve elemental shifts!

Graduation marks a milestone of movement from one form of learning to another form – whether it be from Kindergarten to Grade School – Grade School to Middle School – Middle School to High School and then on to College, Graduate Schools, Doctoral Programs – or off to different forms of employment and the graduations that they often experience through the upward movement of promotions! These new beginnings are very singular in their nature as they are the direct result of your individual accomplishments and are all about your evolution as an individual. What is interesting however is that as you are progressing as an individual you are also moving along as a “class.” And part of the success you will encounter is not only about your individual achievements, but how you also stack up against the people in your class. I bring this up only to help you to see that the very groups that give you some sense of connection, acceptance and belonging, are also the groups that are giving you a sense of separation from other groups – and a sense of lack. Regardless of all of the amazing talent that might be in a particular class there will always be just one – or maybe two – Valedictorians. These are the individuals who have set themselves apart from the rest of the group by seemingly showing the most outstanding achievements. I am not speaking poorly of these individuals – because their achievements are great – but often there are other great achievers who lose their momentum for achieving their dreams when they do not seem as important as the top GPA or attendance record.

If I were to be speaking to the Graduates of a High School Class I would urge them to not compare themselves to others – for everyone is so very different – and many different voices make for a beautiful chorus! Rather, I would advise them to do those things that will help you to progress in society – but always look for the thing that brings them the greatest joy! There are many young people who have come into this incarnation with the skills to create vast new possibilities for this planet – that will never be realized if they settle their desires to the “status quo.”

A single person can change the course of the planet and if you look through history you will see that it is the actions of singular people who are changing it all the time. You are not “graduating” and leaving behind the knowledge of the past. You are evolving to the next level of your being and your schooling is just a part of that learning. It is interesting that many modern societies have come to the belief that learning is so important that you actually require it! Your soul always desires to grow. It desires new experiences, greater knowledge and you are always seeking a deeper understanding of yourself. Regardless of your current place in life, use this month of June to graduate to your newer level of evolution and know that all of you are in a class all by yourself and have come here to be the greatest expression of yourselves that you can possibly be!

Sometimes in that desire to become the greatest expression of yourself you come across another being that helps you to reach those heights – and often you do the same for them. When this takes place it allows you to feel safer to allow a greater opening of your heart centerwhich enables you to feel a pure connection to your soul – your higher self. This feeling of your own soul’s essential energy of pure love causes you to want to continue the connection to this person, who has triggered your feeling safe to do this, and you desire to prolong your contact with them. This usually evolves into relationships and some of these relationships will evolve into a joining of permanence that you have come to call Marriage. Relationships are a “graduation” in their own right. You graduate from thinking solely of your own needs and happiness and begin to desire to spread that love and joy to others. In the healthiest of relationships you do not give up your own self-care, but you expand that caring to include others and you derive joy from doing this – just as your beloved experiences the same with you. I mentioned earlier that so many marriages take place in the month of June because it provides, in many cases, the optimal weather conditions – allowing for the most auspicious beginning to this union of two souls that have come together to form something “bigger than the both of them!

Marriage is about joining two people together as a collective unit of energy. It is like when you combine two other elements of nature – for example – hydrogen and oxygen. Either one, on their own, provides a powerful and useful purpose, but combined they create water – which is the key to the existence of the entire planet. When you begin to see yourself as energetic beings, you come to realize that it is the combination of your individual energies that often leads to magnificent new energies that allow you to create other new possibilities. One’s energy brings to the other certain elements that may be lacking in their structure. The key, if you will, to human relationships, and especially marriage, as you have created it to be a lifelong joining, is to respect the structure of each individual’s makeup – supporting them to grow that expression of their energy – while respecting your unique energy as well. You then allow those energies to blend and see what develops through this blending. As with other elements – different blends work in different ways. Some blends will produce explosive results, while others are gentle transformations and some will not blend – seeking instead to just hold onto their original structure. I hope you can see how well this applies to people in relationships as well. Some blends are so easy and produce more joy and expansion than in their original forms. In other cases, the combinations are explosive and result in constant conflicts as each form seeks to retain their unique identity – while at the same time wanting to be in this mix of energies. And finally there are those relationships in which the elements just do not blend at all. But when these energies do blend, the result is an amazing new creation – an expression of combined soul energy that allows for a far greater expansion then the two individual souls could create – because their blending was based in the expansion of love – and a new and wonderful beginning takes place.

And sometimes when two souls join together – through marriage or just through the expression of a sexual union – this blending of energies actually gives birth to an entirely new human form – and that form becomes the container for an entirely new soul. And this new soul gives the two elements that joined together another new identity – that of a father and a mother. We honor Mothers during the month of May – but it is in June that we honor the energies of Fathers. In today’s times the roles of mothers and fathers have greatly blended – especially in the case of single parents. Father’s traditionally took on the role of the provider and protector. Today that may expand to being the coach, transporter, meal maker, laundry facilitator, homework helper and emotional support. What makes this such an amazing new beginning is that – like the marriage you desire to help this new being to be the greatest expression of itself that it can – and like with graduation – you watch them develop all of the skills they will need in life – from learning to feed themselves – to walking – to learning to read and so very much more. You support their growth – but you also try to protect them! The desire to protect their young is hard wired into the brains of almost all parents of all species – but it is most complicated as it refers to humans. You desire to protect – which comes from the brain – but you also desire to help your young ones to expand – which comes from the soul – so you then seek to find that perfect blend of energies that is called balance.

So you see dear ones, what Graduation and Marriage and Father’s Day have in common is that all three speak to new beginnings and all three are best accomplished through seeking balance of your personal elements in all things. When you cook, or eat the perfect meal, it is generally because all of the elements of that dish are balanced in such a way as to compliment the other. Balance work with fun… balance learning with sharing… balance your needs with other’s needs… balance teaching your children with learning from them…balance protecting with encouraging independence… and balance every struggle with love.

You drink water, or something made with water every day. You shower with it and you cook with it. Use water as your daily reminder of how perfectly two very different elements can come together to form something so wonderful. The one part of oxygen does not become upset that there are two parts of hydrogen – the blend works. Look for what works in your life and when it does celebrate it – like you would a graduation, or a wedding – or Father’s Day! And just as all of the elements complement each other – take some time to complement yourself on those blends that you have created in this lifetime, for however long they have lasted, for all of them have helped your soul to grow its energy and for you to grow in your humanity!

Go in peace, love and elemental balance,


You came here to be joyful – all the rest is an illusion!

May 16, 2017 by gerry

Hello Dear Ones,

Those of you who have done readings with me, or have listened to me speak on the radio, or read either of the books, have come to realize that I am always speaking about JOY! There is a good reason for this. You experience constant joy at your soul level – which is the essence of who you truly are! When you came into this physical incarnation you desired to expand that energy into this life.

But somewhere along the road human beings get derailed from their desire to have a lifetime that is filled with joy. It begins with adults telling you that “no one ever told you that life was going to be easy;” other’s telling you to “wipe that smile off your face” when you see the humor in many rules and regulations; and finally you become so used to life being a struggle and “joy being a fleeting thing” that you come to settle into the place where “misery loves company.” There you might settle down with other like minded people who hate their jobs, or their marriages, or their government and have resigned themselves to the adage that “You are born, you pay taxes… then you die!”

How do things come so far from being the laughing and happy baby that you came into this world being – to one who can see the joy in other people’s lives, but not in their own? The answer is very simple – you learned to forget that everything is a source of joy…

And the answer to reclaiming your joy is just as simple. Lighten up! Look for “what is funny, or could potentially be funny about this situation!” That is why I love comedians! They serve such an important role in your lifetime – by helping you to see the joy in even the most difficult of experiences – and in so doing, to help you to laugh at yourself! You can listen to a comedian speak about the problems in their relationship and suddenly you see yourself in that situation and it becomes funny. You hear one talk about their children, or their job, or the current situations in the world and suddenly you are able to see that, at its core, there is humor that can be found in almost every situation – which means that there is joy to be found in everything! When you are in a club that is hosting comedians you now have an additional energetic experience of joining with like minded individuals – who are seeking to experience joy – and are sharing it as part of a community of people who do funny things!

Some of you may be reading these words and thinking to yourself – “but Margaret, I am going through such a difficult experience, how could I possibly find anything joyful about this” – and perhaps for right now it may be hard.

But at some point – when you step back from the depth of the emotion – the humor will become clear.
No one would ever have thought that when Richard Prior entered into the depth of his addiction to crack cocaine – one that eventually led him to setting fire to his house and himself – that it would lead him to create one of the funniest and most heartfelt routines of his life! One that not only helped him to heal by seeing the crazy humor of his actions – but even helped others who were struggling with addiction to see both the bizarre nature of their own actions – and to forgive themselves enough and see enough lightness – to get out of the darkness of their lives and get help.

Humor is the creation of joy in the place of frustration, anger and sadness. It also allows you to release brain chemicals that can actually help you to move out of those conditions and into a more permanent state of joy. And as your vibration grows as the result of joy, your draw more joy to you and you begin to see more joy in your other experiences. And by the way, did you know that when you use the phrase “things are looking up,” or “I’m feeling kind of down” that by actually doing those physical things it causes you to release brain chemicals. Try it, look up into the sky for a moment and then smile and feel the energetic release you get! Try smiling when you are looking down…it does not feel the same – right? Have you ever laughed to the point of tears – or cried to the point of laughter? The brain chemicals that create these releases can switch gears in a second… so why not try looking up and smiling, laughing at the things that you do – and maybe checking out a comedy show this weekend!
You came here to be joyful – all the rest is an illusion!

Go in peace, love and laughter!

Sending Resentment Back Where it Came From

May 9, 2017 by gerry

Hello Dear Ones and Welcome,


There is an interesting thing that happens with the change of the seasons and currently it is happening in the North East where Gerry lives. The temperatures are unseasonably cool – following some days of seasonal warmth. For many, this causes them to feel frustration as they were ready to move into the new season and had put away their warmer clothes. They are ready to move on – but the current weather is a reminder of how much they dislike the cooler weather – and it becomes a predominant part of thought and conversation. For others, who like the cooler weather, it is a welcome relief and a delay to the warm days of summer ahead. The thing that both of these groups hold in common is that neither one is firmly planted in the present moment. Neither has the opportunity to fully engage with and enjoy the current state of the environment – because they are either resenting the current weather as reminder of the past – or resenting the yet to come future weather – as a reminder of the past! Re-sent-ment is perhaps one of the most prevalent thought processes and yet it does nothing more than rob you of your power in the present moment!

What are the things that you might resent? Do you resent the success of another? Do you resent all that you put into relationships, never feeling that you get anything back? Do you resent your lack of freedom in your current situation? Do you resent your lack of finances? Do you resent things that you did for others in the past? Whatever it is that you resent, what you are truly doing is re-sending your energy to a time in your past where you felt under-valued and bringing that energy to the present moment. When you look at it, all resentment stems from feeling under-valued – either by other’s or by yourself. What causes the feelings of being under-valued is the act of comparison! You will compare your success; finances; sex life; joy and even more, to those experiences that someone else is having. When they have something that you do not have then it calls forward the energy from when you first felt a sense of loss and feeling “less than” and that causes the same feeling to re-surface in your adult self. You may have first felt that feeling when a neighbor girl had a lovely dress that your family could not get – or when someone was able to dance or run or jump better than you. The operative word there is “better!” You see someone’s success at doing something that you did not accomplish as an indication of your having less value. When you call that old thought forward to your adult self, (re-sent-ment) you now feel that same sense of feeling “less-than.” Only now, your adult being is calling back the feeling of that same emotional pain.

Many wise people have already said the words I am about to say, but I feel that they so need to be repeated. Please dear ones, STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS! There is no comparison to you – you are a completely unique individual. No one else has had your unique experiences and brings your unique being to the table. No one else comes from your unique soul energy! Celebrate your uniqueness and when you see success in others then call up the memory of what it felt like when you had a successful experience and feel that energy for that other person.  There is no lack of “success” energy in the universe. It is essentially the joy one feels from the expansion of your experience! YOU MANUFACTURE IT, so there is no reason to believe that anything is beyond creation.  If you feel yourself going into rejection say the Afformation, “Why is it so easy to let go of my resentments” or “Why is it so easy to feel joy for others success!”

Also, it is wonderful to take some time one day to sit down and make a list of your past successes. And by past successes I mean ALL OF THEM! Look at all the things that you learned to do that now you take for granted.  Remember how hard it was in the beginning to learn to walk; swallow a pill; to ride a two wheel bike; to learn to read words like these; to find your first job; to ask for your first date; to have a child; to buy or rent a home; to finish High School, or College or higher! If you keep looking you will find a million other wonderful successes that are a part of your life – and if you have trouble ask your angel for help and say “why is it so easy for me to remember my successes!” One cannot feel resentment at the same time as they are feeling successful – because then you only see the success of others as proof that the energy of success is boundless and that what truly sets you apart from others is only your perception of your own success! You are successful, you are powerful – you are divine!!!

Go in peace, love and success,


Margaret’s Message for May – Change the Frequency – Change Your Life!

May 2, 2017 by gerry

Hello Dear Ones and Welcome,


I know that by now all of you have figured out that I am an “angel geek” about language! I love how you have created your words. I love how so many of them not only describe what you are speaking about – but many actually even describe the energy of that experience. One of those words is frequency. Frequency can describe how often one does something – like those of you who frequently listen to our radio program. In Old English, it actually referred to a gathering of people. Mathematics and Statistics have created their own meaning as the relative time something will repeat itself – Physics refers to frequency as the rate at which a vibration occurs that constitutes a wave, as in sound waves, or in an electromagnetic field (as in radio waves and light). You are probably most familiar with Radio waves, as the distinct location at which a radio station is sending out its distinct message, or its radio frequency. The thing about all of these definitions is that they hold something in common. The greater the frequency, the greater the signal, the greater the power!

Frequency is all about vibration – and vibration is about the very particular energy that is created by an individual cellular thought and how much that energy is amplified, or repeated by the thought energy of others. Remember dear ones that everything all around you has energy – and that all life force energy comes from your souls. So the energy attracts other energy – begins to amplify that vibration and then produces a larger energy. So by example, many of you in the world are experiencing some unexpected results in your political activities. This is due to a vibration of discontent that picks up on other discontent and that energy binds together to form a frequency of that thought – which actually creates its own vibration that attracts more of the same.

In other words, thoughts – that are thought over and over (frequency of thought) creates its own energy around that thought (vibration) which then broadcasts out into the world and attracts other similar thinkers who expand that like thought into its own bandwidth of energy – which you then interpret as reality. Or, said differently, your thoughts create your reality!

Frequency is therefore the gathering of thoughts together into a common vibrational state. This makes sense when you think of radio. It is separated into stations –which are a frequency that is locked into a specific bandwidth of vibration – and each of those broadcasts something that the people going to that station agree that they like. So some are attracted to rock and roll music and other’s classical; some seek news stations and others “talk radio,” which generally has its own structure of opinion that is given voice by the host. The more people who “frequent” the broadcast expands its popularity and the more attraction it develops and therefore more like thinkers and a more powerful signal.

What is important to note, is that every message that is being broadcast can create different vibrations. It all depends on re-action to the vibration. So your thoughts may group together not only by the things that you love – but also by what you do not love (fear). Conflicting energies can cause mixed signals that can result in all types of energetic discord. Mostly this is caused by mis-communication. Someone who’s reality is set in a certain way of thought hears something that is said by another through the filter of their experiences and they feel discomfort in some way. This can result in massive problems like global disagreements – to smaller issues like dysfunctional cell-phones.

The greatest and strongest frequency of energy that exists in the entire universe is love. Love is actually what supports all of the other energies. Love, loves everything. It understands everything. It has compassion for everything and it sees the beauty in everything. Love seeks to gather together all of the other frequencies, even the opposing ones, so that all can understand that at their soul core – it all began with love! Love seeks to expand communication on every level!

That is what angels are seeking to help the world to do at this time. We are trying to spread the message of love. We are seeking to help you to understand that while you all see yourselves as identifying with certain “stations” of thought – you are actually LOVE personified. It is why Gerry and I are seeking to broadcast this message to larger frequencies and we are asking for your help in doing this. Spread the message of love! Deep inside you know that love is the highest vibration. That is why as children you could feel the lessening of the pain of your boo-boo when a gentle kiss was placed upon it by someone you loved.

We seek to increase the frequency of how often you speak about love – about joy – about gratitude – about compassion and about understanding this unique soul journey. For this will increase the vibration of these thoughts and the frequency of your personal vibration of love. That will increase your personal joy, and as that grows it will gather other like thinkers to you, which will further increase the vibration of love within your human form – until it reaches a level that you all begin to remember that you are not just humans expressing love, YOU ARE LOVE!

Go in the frequency of peace and love,

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